Golf

Thanks for everyone that came out this past weekend,

I have now become efficient in the organizational aspects of running a golf outing! Basicallywe all had a great time! I learned that I can’t golf like my cousin Brad (not too many people can, so I have THAT going for me!)

Have a great day~ Next Sept (2008) its #2 !

MEMORIAL WALK FOR JON

 

A memorial walk to honor Jon

will be held Friday, June 13th 2008  

Lake Fenton Middle School track  

during the Fenton Area Relay for Life Event

 Please show up at the Lake Fenton Lifesavers Relay Tent by 7:00 PM 

Sign up to walk at  http://www.main.acsevents.org/goto/forjon                          

                                   

Relay for Life represents the hope that those lost to cancer will never be forgotten, that those who face cancer will be supported, and that one day cancer will be eliminated. 

 

 

  Posted by: Kristi (Flowers) Ocenasek

 Advocacy Chair-Fenton Relay for Life 

       Legislative Ambassador- American Cancer Society

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Relay for LIFE team meeting

 Lake Fenton Life Savers

We are having a team meeting on May 7th at 6:15 in the library of Lake Fenton Middle School on the corner of Torrey Rd. and N. Long lake Rd. We will be making plans for everything we will need for the relay. tents, food, fundraising etc.

More info to come, please try to make it!

Greg & Kristi

WTU Goodrich Area Chapter

 

As some of you may already know, Greg Crary and I are taking over the Whitetails Unlimited banquet for Jon, this is something he loved and started on his own.  Since starting this, it has become one of the best WTU banquets in the region. 

Please help us continue Jon’s wishes and support this event. 

Date: March 29, 2007 

Location: Captains Club
1000 Woodfield Drive
Grand Blanc, MI 48439

Ticket order Deadline date is March 22, 2007

Complete information here: CLICK
to view the flyer: CLICK

Table Captain
Become a Table Captain by purchasing tickets for 8 people (or more) and you will receive:
• Entry in Table Captains Only Drawing for a Benelli Nova 12 ga. Shotgun!
• Table reserved in your name
• Be recognized as a special WTU guest

General Raffle
$100 General Raffle Package Deal
Buy a $100 General Raffle Package before the ticket order deadline and receive:
• 90 general raffle tickets (for majority of all guns and merchandise!)
• 2 Bonus Gun raffle tickets
• WTU Collectible Item

These items can be picked up at the door when checking in. If you wait to buy at the banquet you will receive only 60 general raffle tickets, 1 bonus gun raffle ticket, and a WTU Collectible.

You can call me to request a Table as TABLE CAPTAIN as well as ordering your GENERAL RAFFLE tickets  (leave a detailed message) 810-629-1912

Thanks for your support:

Greg Flowers

My Luck. .

Your not gonna believe this~

Monday 1/22/07 on the way in to work (Dearborn) my truck was acting a little funny,

(except without the big clown nose & shoes) then it was worse on the way home,  now its feeling like the transmission was slipping, I’m thinking “Dammit” so I pay close attention to the sounds,  how’s its really acting, and then think that its the catalytic converter thats plugged up. much better to fix than transmission!  I call my Dad to get his opinion on the plabsbsbsbt eeeeigh-eeeer (you know, the sounds you make mimicing the noise your car makes? everyone does it!!)  He was thinking it might be the same thing, exhaust, possibly fuel.

Keep in mind I’m only doing 65, and on 96 during rush hour?… holy ga-jeebeez!

I called Muffler-n-go in Fenton, they can’t get me in till the morning, again. . “Dammit” But in all actuality it was a good thing (get to that later) so I pick up Jillian from the babysitters, start heading back home, thinking about what my Dad said about possible fuel problems,  so I’ll stop on the way home and get a new fuel filter, I get home, try to replace that and can’t get it disconnected!  “DAMMIT”

(except I say it to myself cause Jillian is like a parrot!) Okay, Now I’m frustrated, I decide to move my truck over a little in the garage and guess what?…. it won’t F’N START! . . . “DAMMIT ~ DAMMIT!!” whew, take a deep breath, turn the key, no fuel pump noise!, its the szzzzzzszzzzzzszzzzzz when you turn your key, its the pump that primes the gas lines, if you’ve never heard it, nextime you start your car, stick your head out towards the ground….walla

Okay, I know the problem now,  just no solution.

AND to top this all off,  I just started a new job and need this fixed tonight so I can get to work, maybe borrow a car?  “I’ll call Aunt Beth!”  um, I forgot that 1 of the vehicles gets stored in the winter (dammit) !. . . I called Chase, he came over, and I used his JEEP to get to work on tuesday.  Got home, picked up a Fuel pump (which goes IN the fuel TANK!) It was $359.00!  “dbl DAMMIT”  So then I tore it apart and put it all back together with Chase’s help!  I’m glad I didn’t get in to the muffler shop~ I would have got a new converter for no reason.

Thanks to Chase for helping me cuss while we replaced the damn thing,  and everyone that offered their help!

Welcome to 2007

Well, just a little update

The family is doing fine, we are truely doing what Jon would have wanted us to.  Tracy is sprucing up the house, the kids are in their activities, visiting there friends and trying to stay busy. Christmas was a little different without Jon there but I suppose thats part of this, the “missing”

Had our first snowboard event this past weekend at Shanty Creek, there was sparse snow, but we pulled it off and everyone had a great time!  Thanks to my crew and alot of fertilizer (We use it to set the rails in the snow, it freeze’s it up faster) 40 kids!

still no word on employment, I’m staying positive reguardless of the outcome.

About Jon

Sometimes you meet someone that makes a difference in your life, over the past few months I have been in contact with so many friends, old and new, I’m reminded by everyone what a great man Jon Flowers was and how he impacted their life.  This naturally is a time for sorrow and greif, The kind words from everyone has been greatly appreciated by all of us, It has helped us get through this rough time. THANK YOU!

I sat with my Brother Mike tonight and reflected on the things that made us laugh, that made us cry and generally some of the things that Jon would have wanted us to do. The main thing he would want is for us is to be happy in our lives,  and to make the time to be with family, Not TAKE time, make time. On the trips to his treatment we had several chances to talk about growing up, about family, about friends and how important it was to have that time.   He had a way of seeing the better side of the coin (Its a Flowers thing!).  He told me that I should view being laid off all summer as a chance to bond with my daughter. He reminded me that it is a temporary situation and that I should soak up every second of it. As always, he was right. I’ve learned a lot about raising kids by watching Jon be a great father to Taylor and Travis. I strive to do the same for Jillian. He told me to always be a Dad first and a friend second. That’s exactly what he was - thru dance, scouts, soccer, and the bumps and bruises along the way.  Most of all, the Love that he had for them. I know that he wanted to be around longer to give them more direction in life, to offer his ear to a concerned child, to be the shoulder cry on and also the pillar of support.  He was such a great man.  He encouraged them to be their best, just like he has encouraged all of us to do our best.  Offering encouragement along the way was a specialty of Jon’s, Ask anyone that has worked with him, “SARGE” as he was coined, fit in many ways, tough when he needed to be and understanding when needed as well.  There’s so much more to write.

thanks for listening,

Greg

if you have a story you would like published here for all of us to enjoy, please e-mail it to me. We cold all use some good “Jonny” stories!

November 27 2006

 Link to Obituary here 

Sign the guest book

 

For those who didn’t receive a personal phone call I apologize,

regretfully I have to let you know that Jon has passed away today, November 27th 2006

All services will be held in Davison at the Allen Funeral home on Davison rd.

Allen Funeral Home
9136 Davison Rd
Davison
Michigan 48423
Phone: (810) 653-2171

Wednesday 29th Visitation time 5pm to 9pm

Thursday 30th Visitation time 1pm to 4pm  and   6pm to 9pm

Friday 1st Funeral services 11am

Donations can be made to the American Cancer Society or to His kids College fund.   Information will be at the funeral home for these donations.

Greg

Here is a link to Margie’s blog ( a friend of Jon’s from work)  definitely worth reading!  Click Here

Thanksgiving

This year it seems I didn’t have much to be thankful for, but then when I look deeper at everything, I see that there are so many things that I have overlooked. Every day people are taking for granted some of the small things in life. I know that I have a GREAT family, and I know that no matter how bad things can get, it could be worse.

Jillian and I went to Grandma & Grandpa Flowers for dinner, when we arrived Jillian was dancing around playing with jake (dog) and having a good time playing with her new Mega-Blocks! We had a nice dinner, it occurred to me that we didn’t say Grace, I wasn’t going to say anything since all of our thoughts were in Goodrich where my brother was spending thanksgiving.  I received a birthday gift from my parents and also an early christmas gift from Uncle George & Aunt Linda, They were such  thoughtful gifts that I had a hard time holding back the building tears.  After Dinner was cleared up we all took a drive to go see Jon,

When we got there we had more tears, Jon was sleeping,  he was hooked up to oxygen to help him breath. He has lost so much weight, it was hard to sit there without thinking that I just wanted him to get up, maybe take a walk, just ANYTHING! The realization of what was happening hit me really hard today.

One thing that Jon wanted more than anything was to have a relationship with Jillian, he was concerned that she might not remember him, This is where the”Thanksgiving” comes in,  Jillian was singing and dancing around while Tracy was trying to talk with Jon, Letting him know that we were all there, Mike, Tim, Mom & Dad, Taylor & Travis and Jillian and I.  Well, Jon heard Jillian’s singing, looked up and acknowledged her, when it came time to leave, Jillian said “I want to stay with Jonathan” Tracy and I looked at each other and we stayed a little longer. We both knew what had happened, For a little girl she knows allot, and we ALL know that she will always know and love her Uncle Jon.

Yes, this isn’t fair, its nothing to be thankful for, But We all Love Jon tremendously, and he will always be in out hearts.  When things are presented to us like this, its a natural reaction to be upset, even to be angry, to ask Why? I want to know Jon will be going to a better place, I want to know that everything is going to be okay.

I just Know my Brother, and he wants us to stay strong and continue in life with a smile.

Bullfrogs

Thanks to all the Lear & Toyota people that met up with Jon last friday at Bullfrogs,

It meant alot to him that you were there and that he was able to be there with everyone.